Wondering if we all have the need to belong. And to possess. To possess objects, people, loved ones, to own, to be able to say- mine.
It's a good feeling to know we belong somewhere. Last night made me feel so comforted to have the feeling of belonging to a circle of friends.
Perhaps women have a stronger need for attachment and belonging, give freedom less importance.
But where do we stand alone and still and where does the sense of belonging to someone or to a group define us/ give us worth.
I know personally I am more attached to objects than to people. Come to think of it, I think I am most attached to my hometown above all. It's interesting to think about how we develop our sense of attachment.
One of my favorite readings of the year says:
"But that is not to say: do not treasure them. This is not to say: discard them, mangle them, and abuse them. But simply refuse to find yourself in them; refuse to identify with them; base your self-worth on them. Play with them, enjoy them, nurture them – but realise that one day they will have to go." urbanmonk.net
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