16.11.10

How you treat yourself -others will treat you

Your attitude and confidence about yourself will determine how others will treat you. If you exude confidence and you believe you deserve the best treatment, you will most likely get it!

The other day after my usual morning bus ride, I dropped by to get some food for work and there I had another great example of how you can learn from people every day. A man walked in and in a very uncertain tone with a feeble voice, he asked the shop assistant if she could change some money for him. 'You can't change this amount of money for me right?'. I think he asked. The woman answered -If you put it that way, I can't. Be more assertive and confident and I will.

Assertiveness and learning how to present yourself and how to sell yourself will get you a long way. It's in how you treat yourself that others will treat you.

Another lesson to take from this is to expect the best possible outcome, instead of virtually asking for a negative outcome. Again you will exude that confidence that you are worthy of good treatment and others will comply and deliver what you are asking for.

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